Are we assuming this is a monogamous relationship? If not, A.
when i said mutually exclusive, i meant you can only have one or the other, because i know it would be possible to have both kinds of relationships (one of perfect sex and no emotional attachment, one of perfect emotional compatibility and no sex) at the same time.
i’m asking because i’m completely smitten with a person i know and they like me a lot too—but they’re not interested in sex at all; even the slightest peck or a prolonged hug can make them uncomfortable. and i don’t know what to do because i’m dying for intimate contact but they’re all i want right now, and they’d be jealous if i sought sex elsewhere anyway.
the reason we finally stopped pining after each other and admitted our feelings was because of my hookup with martin—when i told them that i’d slept with him, they were kind of .. hurt, even though they didn’t even know how i felt about them yet.
Tags: #personal #sex #relationships #stupid complicated life stuff
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imaginarysins said:
Ah, okay. I guess I was taking it too literally, in that I assumed only those two options were mutually exclusive and you could combine relationship A with another relationship with good-but-not-perfect sex. Anyway, I have no useful input.
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